Relationship Therapy
Relationships can be fulfilling and rewarding while also overwhelming and challenging. We provide relationship therapy (a.k.a. couples therapy) that can address a range of difficulties in the areas of communication, intimacy, trust, and role confusion. Whether you are experiencing issues around emotional connection, unproductive fighting, sexual functioning, finances, parenting, or infidelity, we offer a safe and confidential space in which to tackle some of the challenges that many experience in the course of their romantic relationships.
We also offer support to couples facing life transitions such as (re)marriage, parenthood, and professional development. We welcome work with heterosexual, gay/lesbian, queer, gender diverse, monogamous or polyamorous folks in relationships.
Common reasons for Relationship Therapy include:
Conflict
Isolation/Withdrawal
Emotional Intimacy
Change in sexual desire
Neurodiverse partners
Identity exploration/Transition
Exploring other amorous configurations (more than two)
Cross-cultural or spiritual issues
Impacts of trauma
Parenting and other family relationships
Seeking to separate in a kind and loving way
Primary Modalities employed in Relationship Therapy
Developmental Model (Bader-Pearson model)
Intimacy from the Inside Out (Internal Family Systems)
Emotion-Focused Therapy
Relational Life Therapy
Sex Therapy
Sex therapy is much like other forms of talk therapy. Often clients wish to address a physiological issue (eg. erectile dysfunction or low desire). As therapists, we will be looking to understand and treat the issue holistically: integrating relational and psychological aspects. We see both individuals and couples for sex therapy.
Additionally, we may collaborate with sexual medicine practitioners (eg. pelvic physical therapists, urologists, gynecologists, etc.) to understand and address how the physical issues contribute to the overall situation.
Sex Therapy may incorporate at-home exercises in order to directly work with the mind-body connection and uncover associations, anxieties, or longings. These can be partnered or individual practices. Sex Therapy may have educational components; in a culture which is largely silent on matters of sexuality, there can be great gains from simply having a non-judgmental place in which to address questions.
Common reasons
for Sex Therapy include:
Sexual Pain
Low Sexual Desire and Arousal
Communication challenges between partners
Performance Anxiety
Erectile or Ejaculation Concerns
Orgasm Difficulties
Sexual Trauma
Sexual Anxiety & Avoidance
Shame & Guilt around Sexuality
Sex-negative upbringing or religious background
Sexual Behavior concerns
Queer Sexualities
Stigma
Oppression/Discrimination
Exploring BDSM & Kink
Polyamory and Open Relationships
Unique / Atypical Sexual Interests
Infidelity
Individual Therapy
In addition to sex and relationship therapy, we see clients for general psychotherapy. Treatments include a multi-disciplinary approach, and incorporate various theoretical methods tailored to each patient’s unique situation. Common approaches include Internal Family Systems, Mindfulness, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Prolonged Exposure, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and Psychodynamic (pattern recognition).
Common reasons
for Individual Therapy include:
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ living and relationships
Relational Trauma
Sexual trauma/abuse
Anxiety/Depression
Stigma
Oppression/Discrimination
Behavioral concerns
Relationship dynamics, roles, boundaries
Compulsive behaviors
Shame, self-worth, self-trust
Loss/endings
Supporting psychiatric medication change and/or discontinuation processes